9 Things that flow through a man's head during 5ex

While most men usually try to act nonchalant about 5ex, the truth is that they’re not so different from women when it comes to getting intimate. No matter how confident they act, all guys have some insecurities about 5ex, even when they are in a long-term relationship.

5ex is fraught with emotional issues, and guys have them just as women do. While women are more likely to have self-consciousness issues about their bodies, men have issues that also cause anxiety and performance issues on top of it!

How does 5ex affect a man’s psyche?

5ex in a relationship entails an extremely strong emotional connection. It has the power to bring two people much closer together, but it can create insecurities as well, which can drive a couple apart. If one partner seems distant or uninvolved during 6ex, it can nag at the other person, and leave them wondering.
Maybe they’re just tired from work, or maybe the 5ex is getting old and stale. It can even leave someone wondering whether they’re being cheated on.

9 issues men often have when getting intimate

Some men have a lot of issues, while others have negligible ones. Below are some of the issues that may often cross their mind when having 5ex with a woman.

#1 Performance issues.
Most guys have some personal hang-ups when it comes to 5ex. All guys have had or will have some sexual dysfunction or performance anxiety in their lives. The fear of this happening either for the first time, or again, can weigh heavy on his mind. Usually, worrying about it so much makes it more likely to happen, but it can be hard to avoid. [Read: 10 easy ways to
overcome sexual anxiety and improve
performance
]
#2 Her past partners.
He may also have insecurities about a woman’s past partners. Unless he is her first, a guy will inevitably think about her past 5exual experience and compare himself. He might be worried about the other guy’s size – maybe he was better endowed. Or it could be about performance – maybe he was more experienced or had better technique. Any guy who denies that this has crossed his mind is not being honest.

#3 Keeping her interested.
Another potential area for creating insecurities is when 5ex starts getting too routine. If the woman seems to be
losing interest in 5ex, or if 5ex is becoming less and less frequent, a guy might worry that it’s an issue about him. This works in exactly the same way when the roles are switched and it’s the guy who seems to be losing interest and the woman who does the worrying.
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#4 How she responds to his insecurities.
If a guy does display any of these insecurities, a woman should be honest and open. If the 5ex could be better, discuss it openly and in a non- judgmental way. She should not be afraid to let him know if there’s a better way that he could be doing something in bed. And it’s a two-way street, so she should be sure to ask him if there’s anything she can be doing differently or better.

#5 The persistence of his issues.
There is one important note that should be mentioned: There are some guys whose insecurities and hang-ups are insurmountable. If a woman has done all she can to reassure him that his performance is fine, his size is fine, and that 5ex is fine, but he still can’t get over it and insists that he can’t measure up, he needs to be dumped. There’s no fixing a guy like that, and it’s more common than you might think.

#6 What she does to fix the issue.
If it’s a question of 5ex getting stale, routine or boring, try something new to spice things up. This can be anything as long as it’s hot and it’s different: role play, dress up, dirty talk, public 5ex, bondage, phone sex, anything that can help you see each other with fresh eyes.

#7 Men’s intimacy needs.
5ex in a relationship is as important to men as it is to women. Guys have the same need for intimacy as women do, they just don’t always show it in the same ways. Lots of guys try to keep up a manly or macho front, but most of them like cuddling whether they admit it or not.
Society in general tends to misunderstand both male and female 5exuality. People tend to think that guys are hornier or have higher 5ex drives than women. It’s easy to see where this misconception comes from: Guys are turned on much faster than women are and can go from zero on the horniness scale up to ready-for-5ex in a matter of seconds. Women take much longer, but this doesn’t mean they have lower 5ex drives, just that they need someone who knows how to turn them on properly. In fact, since guys pretty much lose all desire the instant they orgasm, it could be argued that women have a higher 5ex drive than men, as most can keep going after they come.

#8 An emotional connection with his partner.
The relationships with the deepest emotional connections are those where 5ex is enjoyed by both partners, and where both partners care about the comfort and pleasure of the other. Too many guys neglect a woman’s pleasure due to a selfish outlook on what 5ex means to their relationship. Women who have a man like this need to make it clear that they have needs too. If he can’t meet them, then she should leave him and find someone who will.

#9 If he’s pleasuring his partner.
Most guys do want to please. They want the deep emotional connection and the sense of intimacy. If they aren’t providing the pleasure that a woman needs, it is more likely because they don’t know how to do it, than that they don’t want to. Establishing good communication around 5ex and intimacy is important in any relationship. It will mean better sex in the present and in the future.
Men really aren’t so much different from women, despite what many people assume. Men want intimacy, emotional connection and pleasure from 5ex. They have the same fears as well. Will they measure up and please her? Will she be turned off by some part of his body, or body hair, or genitals, or anything else? Will he stay hard and last long enough? It is important for anyone in a relationship – men or women – to be caring and understanding. Communication is the key, both for ensuring that everyone is comfortable, and for heightening the pleasure for both partners. Men have easily-bruised egos, so women should approach the topic gingerly. But if two people can’t talk about 5ex as a couple, they will inevitably have a bad sex life. And it really doesn’t have to go that way.

A couple should have a mutual interest in communicating and being open about 5ex. They have the same needs, so there’s no reason that they can’t be met. Tho most men have issues about 5ex, finding a partner who can address these issues and reassure the man’s mind can be enough to eliminate these issues.

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