How to Stop being boring around people
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No one actually likes staying around with someone who's really boring, everyone loves lively people.... like me &:. Okay, lets not waste any of our time, time to hit in on some entertainments. Here we go with 8 Ways to Avoid Being Boring Around People.
#1 Be polite. It is hard to find fault with someone who has manners and is considerate to those around them. When you show others a sense of politeness and camaraderie, there is less of a chance that they will think of you as someone annoying or dull.
#2 Stop being a know-it-all. A former classmate of mine has the very annoying habit of being a know-it-all. She does not even realize she is doing it, but it permeates every aspect of her life and every form of conversation she is involved in. From speaking to her in person, to text messaging, to group chats, to Facebook posts, everything that comes out of her mouth and mind at any given time unflatteringly shows what a know-it-all she is, #yulk.
#3 Let others speak. A sure-fire way to be called the most annoying person in the room is to hog the floor. You have to give others the chance to speak, no matter the time or place. Fun social situations do not develop out of one-man shows, so let others chime in and do not dominate the conversation.
#4 Start conversations with others. Say, for example, you are at a single s mixer or your company sent you on a business conference abroad. Just because you do not know a soul does not mean you cannot engage strangers in intelligent conversation. It is even worse if you know the people around you, but do not make an effort to speak to them.
#5 Stop staring at your phone. I conducted a basic survey amongst my social media fans and asked them what annoys them when they are out with a group of people. 100% of the participants listed people playing with their phones as one of their peeves. If you are the sort of person who has your phone glued to you, snap out of it, and please rejoin the real world.
#6 Be aware of your body. This may be a rather difficult one to control, but it all comes down to being mindful of what your body is doing. People with nervous habits or minor obsessive compulsive disorders will tell you that these little quirks are possible to keep under control, so unless you have a serious medical problem, you have no excuse.
For example, steer clear from cracking your knuckles, as not everyone is fond of that highly annoying sound. Keep body movements like fidgeting and squirming to a minimal, as it is an indication that you are uncomfortable or bored.
#7 No need to be a loud mouth. People do not like loud mouths. So when you are in a social setting, try to control your volume. There is nothing wrong with being an outgoing person, but try to inject some class and awareness into your personality. Ladies, I understand how exciting it is to reunite with your long lost sorority sisters, but spare us the horror of listening to your shrill voices. Guys, even if you are at a bar getting smashed, there is no need to yell at one another unless you want the citizens of Akobero to hear you.
#8 Curb the gossiping. As the saying goes, Great minds discuss ideas. Average minds discuss events. Small minds discuss people. You gossip a lot more than you realize, more so when you have been out of touch with your regular social circle. Whether you have been abroad or simply too busy to catch up with friends on a regular basis, it is inevitable that the next meet up will involve plenty of gossiping, but try not to make it look like you are bad mouthing the person you're talking about.
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