5 Secrets you MUST NEVER tell your best friend

As kids, you might have pledged a sorority to share your darkest secrets with each other,

and that must have been stamped as a lifelong bond back then.
But at times, it s okay to not tell your best friend everything under the sun Keeping mum about some of the details doesn t really hurt or mean that you re making an effort to disrespect the sacred bond of friendship .
Sometimes not Saying is fine, especially in front of your bestie. Here s my list of what s alright to avoid telling your best friend(s).

1. Oops, I Know that already » Guess what, my little brother is dating a girl, and arrghh, how I hate that woman!, exclaimed your enraged favourite pal over a plate of pasta while at a Sunday brunch with you. And you ve almost choked on that spaghetti while deciding on should he know, shouldn t he know ,because well, you did see his little brother coochie-cooing with this girl your best friend disapproves, and you also knew where it was heading. Such exclusive yet unwanted trivia, especially about his little brother or someone really close to him, trust us it s better left unsaid.
2. That s what your parents told me » When you ve known a friend for the longest time, chances are their parents trust you more than them (unless they think you re the one responsible for shaping up the brat their kid is). So when your bosom friend s not-so-happy parents are confiding in you about this certain something they can t discuss with their child, you can skip that from your friend. Whether it s about them or not, it s quite possible that your friend might feel a little threatened by your closeness to their parents.
3. Emm, yeah I did that » So you went for this Church Rally and you later went out with some friends, guzzled drinks like it was nobody s business, and before you knew it, you d made the stupidest mistake of your life, made out with brother samuel. And yes, you re embarrassed and not very proud of the deed. It s okay if you keep this little secret from your BFF. It s best not to disclose fractions of info you think you re capable to erase in a jiffy, unless you want to make it a recurrent joke at get-togethers.
4. I m involved, or maybe not » You might have walked into this situation a couple of times. Sometimes you think you re in a relationship but are not quite sure; or maybe there s that something special brewing up between this new girl and you but, well, it s still at that raw stage. It s perfectly alright not to voice out your feelings, even if it is to your bestie, until you re certain about it. Take your time in announcing or introducing a date to your friend-forever ,but once you re sure of Mr Perfect, maybe you can give your friend the much-deserved chance to sign and seal your decision.
5. I liked her too » Being the key organiser of your best friend s hen night, you ve listed a game of truth or dare in the party agenda. We beg you; if the bottle points at you and a couple of friends scream out Give us the truth ,at no level of intoxication should you utter Bestie, I had a huge crush on your fiance . You don t want Mister BFF to feel insecure about you seducing his bae, or guarding his girl from you. Avoid the drama and leave the crush bit unsaid, unless you ve a bestie as cool as the tip of the iceberg.
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